Hello!

I am a little bit nervous and excited like before the first date. But probably this is what it is. You have seen me and are listening to what I am trying to tell you now - a little bit disconnected though. Could you please forgive me my nervousness - as besides being presented at a photo gallery like some item at a supermarket with basic characteristics like weight, size, age, color… I still want to use this chance to meet a part of mine, a partner for the whole life, for love, for adventures and, perhaps, some small troubles :)

I need to interest you in a few lines, to show you the richness of my inner world and my soul. But how hard it is… and scary… On the whole, I am a rather self-confident person (if you ever ran across me in the street it'd be one of your first characteristics of me) but still, would you help me with your questions?

I would very much like to get to know you better as a personality and to tell you more about myself, about my dreams of creating a solid family in a cozy home with a warm atmosphere of love and support. I want to hope that you are the one I am looking for so long but due to some reasons, we have not met yet. You are a strong man, a little bit romantic inside, but still you have real expectations of life with all its possible hardships. You can make decisions and find solutions (and I'll help you with advice and will support you in a hard minute).

My name is Adelina and I am only (or already) 42 y.o. I am an optimist, and though I am a little bit chicken-hearted inside, life has taught me to oppose difficulties and gain things impossible at first sight. I seem to have achieved a lot for my age - I 've got a good education, an excellent job, a good home. But there's emptiness inside of me, which cannot be filled with anything - neither with communication with close people nor with reading my favorite books or working. After divorce, I was afraid even to think about some serious relationship - so great my disappointment and pain were… As it looks now, nothing can fill this emptiness of soul. In time, I understood that I want to get married again, to love and be loved, to cook dinners and admire my husband's talents… But I must admit that I am a little bit picky about choosing a partner in life. I am here not to get married to any first man but to meet my soulmate and my second half. Just to get married is not difficult, it's much harder to meet a worthy partner with similar interests and dreams, wishes and longings. I am here as I do not have another opportunity to meet my love, in spite of working at a big company, mostly among men and with men. But at work you must think about work, mustn't you?

I am looking for a free single man seriously thinking about creating a new family (not a virtual one), who is reading my profile now because he also lacks time and an opportunity to meet his second half in reality, the one who just like me does not believe in a long corresponding, but is rather fastidious about choosing a partner for the rest of his life.

I am a happy person by nature and always ready for a good laugh, very tender if I do like my partner. I am supportive as well. Perhaps, I look a bit cold sometimes - after the divorce I learned to wear a mask. At work I deal with a lot of men and think that the best way is not to show my internal light and not to make me feel pain from some sticky words as well. I am sure that the only things that matter are the heart and the soul as well as the same perception of the world around us.

My biggest dream is to have a loving, strong family. I believe that in a relationship two people need to be best friends. There must be love, passion, compassion, trust, honesty and understanding. You need to be faithful and kind to each other, support each other in everything, respect each other and never get angry, always talk about your problems, because as long as you love each other you can handle anything - the good as well as the bad, because together you are united. Nothing or nobody will stand in the way of your love for each other.

I believe marriage is a partnership and that is what I am looking for. I have much love to give. I like being with someone I love and enjoying his companionship and friendship. It would make me feel good to see his smile, hear his laughter, feel his tenderness, if I would love him - the guy of my dreams who will come into my life and share his life with me. I know that we are far away and cannot look into each other's eyes or touch our souls and true love is hard to find but my heart is open to it.

My desire is to meet a man of character, responsible, positive thinking and Family-oriented, to give me a strong shoulder to which I could lean upon and which I could rely on... I see him well educated, intelligent, with a good sense of humor, open minded and sincere, not older that 53. I do like holding hands and hugs, romantic dinners and walks, it's great to have a sparkle between… But also it's very important to have an ability to keep it.

I have been divorced for a long time and it was my initiative. Divorce came very painful - firstly because of disappointment because of understanding of the unsuccessful marriage, then my ex did not want to leave me. Lot of stress - before finally I got free - I could not admit that one day I would decide to start a new family… But time is getting on… I was busy with work - one project after another but years pass and my youth and natural happiness disappear…

I know I've got a lot to share. I have such a potential of warmth and tenderness - but having been hurt once I am afraid to be open and generous again…Of course, my man should be special (for me). I hope to meet him and to be happy and to do my best to make him happy.

Well I am going to end this letter for now and I hope I've written something that will make you want to write me back. I know that I must write more about my education, my parents and friends, my place of living and it is conditions - but I am sure you would rather want to know more about my ideas of a family I want to create and my dreams in life. Other things you may know later, if you decide to get closer…

I hope to receive a letter from you, I speak fluent English though with some mistakes :)) My height is 168 cm and my weight is 65 kg. I'm divorced and have a son of 18.

last updated on June 14, 2007