My
name is Elena. This is a very popular name between women of my age. Once
I asked my parents why they gave that name. They answered me that when I was born,
I was so beautiful that they decided to call me like this in honor of Elena, Greek
princess (do you remember Troya war?). I liked this explanation and I like my
name. Many characters of Russian fairy-tales also were named Elena. But for sure
I am against any war!
I
live in Siberia, the city of Omsk. I am 36, and I like my age. I would like to
cite my favorite actress - Monica Bellucci. "It is natural to be beautiful
when you are 20. But when the woman remains beautiful after 35, it is a reflection
of her inner world". I totally agree with her. My body and my face remained
beautiful, but now I understand people better, I am more willing to compromise,
I know what I want from life and I can tell the difference between the important
and the secondary.
I
got married when I was very young. We both thought it would be forever, and it
would be love for the lifetime. But passion disappeared in several years and we
found out that we were two complete strangers. But by that time we had already
got two daughters. We loved our kids very much and wanted them to grow up in a
complete family. Our children grew up happy and good people. They are both students,
have got interesting life and in 1-2 years they will be completely independent.
We are both proud of our girls and have all reasons for that.
A
year ago we got divorced officially - with our quarrels and reproaches. We remained
friends. Daughters often go to see their father and he helps them materially.
I
finally decided to make my career, to obtain a degree. I work as an University
teacher. It is an important goal for me and I am working on my thesis. But I am
too young and beautiful to be alone. Of course, I have close friends that I can
hang with. I have a hobby, and old Chinese martial art - Tai Chi (taiji). It is
a practice of the body for the practice of the spirit. In our classes we learn
about ourselves through the old exercises. All the movements in Tai Chi are slow,
smooth and gracious and have very nice poetic names - Mirror, Fountain, Swan,
Arch…etc.… Philosophy of Tai Chi is a harmony within yourself and with
surrounding world. One of the postulate of tai Chi is "the highest goal for
the warrior is to win the battle, but the highest wisdom is not to take part in
the battle". The atmosphere of my Tai Chi classes is very peaceful.
I
love pets. We have a red cat Filimon, he has green eyes, all like me..))) He has
been with us for more than 12 years. I think he thinks he is the head of the family.
At least he behaves as a VIP..)) He makes our home very cozy and warm. When I
come back home from work, he always comes to meet me, miauling with joy, he falls
on his back and starts rolling from one side to the other. This is his way to
show his joy, and we all are supposed to praise him! In the morning he is used
to get his breakfast always at the same time. And it doesn't matter for him if
on my days off I want to sleep a bit longer. He will stroll on me if I was an
avenue, he will sigh sadly in my ear till my patience is exhausted and finally
I get up to feed him. But what to do, now he is the only mail individual in our
family, we have to respect it!
In
the evening I am mostly alone. In the night the bed seems endless, so big and
so cold! I am not a big woman…I am 168 cm tall and I weigh 58 kg. I want
to find a life partner who would not make me feel alone neither at night nor during
the day. The man of my dreams is kindhearted, attentive, responsible, having a
good character.
I
am pretty sure I will meet you soon. Maybe you are the one who is reading these
lines right now!
posted
on January 14, 2008
last
updated and modified on March 27, 2008
