I do not know what a profile should be started with and what I should
write about, as I have always got acquainted with men in a traditional
way. I think I should start with some basic thing.
My name is Nelli. I was born on 4 February
on 1973 so I am 29 years old. I am 163 cm tall and my weight is 53
kg. I have green eyes and fair hair. I am divorced, have no children.
I live in Volgograd, Russia.
For a long time I tried to understand what happiness
is. I was making plans, trying to achieve something, but only five
months ago after my divorce I realized that making my plans true brings
only temporary satisfaction and failing to fulfill plans leads to
disappointment and necessity to change yourself and your life. You
should live! Live and enjoy every day of life! Today! Now! You should
do what you enjoy! (I do not enjoy drugs and alcohol, I drink only
a little of beer and champagne, but I can not live without a cup of
a good strong coffee without sugar).
I am sure that career is not the main thing for a
woman. It seems to me useless to ask a woman what her life purpose
is. It does not depend on her appearance and job, any woman wants
to love and to be loved, to have a family, home and kids. It is important
to have a real family and only woman’s desire is not enough for it.
A family can be created only by both spouses and they should not try
to change each other. You should decide what you are ready to accept,
just some little shortcomings, and what you will never submit. The
rest is a matter of love, compromise and concessions. Do you agree
with me?
I believe that trust, respect and attention to each
other are the most important things for family life. I can never forgive
my close man lack of respect to me, even if he shows it by being not
very punctual without warning me.
In 1995 I graduated from Volgograd State University,
I am an interpreter and a teacher of German, English and Russian as
a foreign language. After graduating I began working as a teacher
at the translation department and then I came to work to a joint stock
company as an interpreter of the general manager. At first my job
seemed very creative, I tried to extend my vocabulary, to make correct
and nice sentences. For two years I spent days at work, even without
days off doing simultaneous translation and this skill became automatic.
Once I realized that I am tired of translating people’s ideas, I have
my own ones and I want to work by myself. Now I work in a controlling
department and study finance and controlling. My credo is"If
I do anything it should be done well, it is better not to try if you
can not make something perfect". I tried to learn to draw, but
if I failed why should I waste time, energy and paper?
The way of spending my free time depends on my mood.
Sometimes I stay at home alone or with my cat, reading books or listening
to music, sometimes I go to a gym or meet my friends (I have a lot
of them) in a dancing club or a small restaurant. But despite any
mood I enjoy going to the country. When I start thinking that everything
is so bad and there is nothing to wait I look at the sky, river and
trees, at all this beauty and realize that there is nothing better
than nature and life.
I am fond of traveling, though I can not afford it
as much as I would like. I have been to Germany several times, to
almost all 16 lands. I have a lot of friends and just acquaintances
there. I have visited France once. I like Europe and European culture
very much.
The most valuable man’s features for me are reliability
and decisiveness. A man should be able to act and to be responsible
for his actions. He should be a man! Everybody is talking now about
the emancipation in the West, which is likely to come to Russia soon.
But I enjoy being a woman, I like men to help me get out of a bus
or put on my coat. I can not imagine my woman life without these"trifles".
Do you share my ideas? Would you like to argue or just to tell about
yourself? Write in German, English or Russian. I will be glad to answer
you.
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