Probably the most difficult thing is to write the truth about myself,
without exaggerations and any detractions from my own advantages and
shortcomings. And it is for you to judge if I succeeded in it.
My name is Svetlana,
I live in Bielorus, in the capital city of Minsk. I was born on 23
February in 1974. So I am 27 years old. My physical characteristics
are standard, I am 165 cm tall and my weight is 50 kg. I am slim and
have a sporty figure.
That is what I
should tell you about my appearance, but to discover the mystery of
my soul is much more difficult, but I will try.
I can hardly be
called a quiet person. May be it is connected with my job and lifestyle.
I finished a college of Economics and Finance and graduated from University
of management, my profession is an accountant-economist. When I was
18 I wanted to achieve something on my own, without anybody’s help.
During my last year at college I started working doing very simple
jobs and earning my first money. So by the time of graduating from
University (that is now) I am a rather independent person, with a
stable income, good qualifications and lots of friends. But at the
same time I feel very lonely somewhere deep in my heart.
People are right
when they say that only the strongest can survive in this world, but
I do not want to stay alone and fight for myself, I will not be able
to be alone all my life! Well, I have a lot of friends around me,
but HE is not among them. I have no man with whom I would like to
spend all my life, to live his life, to share his interests, to sit
on his knees to chat of the day. I would be the dearest thing for
him and he would be the father of our kids.
I would like
him to be older (30-42) and taller than me, but these are not the
most important things, our mutual trust really matters. I would like
to meet only a white man, it may sound a bit racist, but I believe
that black is for black and white is for white. I don't care too much
about the state of his bank account, because if we want to achieve
something together, we will be able to do everything by putting together
his and my education, skills and abilities. And being a 100% housewife
is, probably, not for me, I do not want to be locked at home and I
will not be able to because:
- Besides cooking
(and I am good at it) I like technics, I am fond of cars, especially
driving them
- I love working
on my computer and we understand each other perfectly
- I am fond of
traveling, curiosity can be called a shortcoming of many girls,
but I would not say so about myself, because getting to know foreign
countries is not only interesting, it helps realize how huge and
beautiful our world is. I am romantic and despite numerous gloomy
events in my life, I am optimistic, I believe in my destiny and
in my being happy.
My star sign is
Pisces and it means that I have various hobbies and interests:
- I am good at
embroidering, and when I grow old I hope to have a lot of things
made with my own hands at home.
- I would like
to have fluent English, now I have already studied elementary grammar
and have already experienced first stresses that I will never be
able to speak and understand what I am told. Three months passed
and now I often think that I like it a lot, and I know and understand
many phrases, and if I fail, my teacher will always help me. I learnt
French at school and I did well, now I have found out that these
two languages borrowed a lot from each other, so translation from
French is not a problem and a little practice will help refresh
grammar and vocabulary.
- I would like
to have a family and to leave this country, because at the moment
I feel rather disappointed in Russian men, or may be I am asking
for too much: I would like them to be kind, tender and honest.
Of course, everybody
has advantages and shortcomings, I am not an exception. But if I start
enumerating them, my shortcomings may seem to be very nice features:
first, I am not very neat. I mean that if today I do not feel like
doing the flat, everything will stay where it was, but tomorrow everything
will be cleaned immediately because of my fit of neatness. I try to
find a certain place for every thing and to keep it there.
Then I take care
of my appearance and my inner world. Visiting people and places who
help me in it is an important part of my life, they are my hairdresser,
swimming pool, gymnasium, opera and theaters. I am fond of operetta,
and music and I are very close. I have no strict preferences, except
probably my dislike of hard rock. When I am sad, I like Vivaldy, Bach
and Beatles. If I am nostalgic, I prefer Ramazotti and Bocelli. And
if everything is OK, music can be very different according to my mood.
I must be a bit
jealous person or I am very careful about my"property",
it can be said about things and people. So I would not recommend my
friend to make me feel doubtful about his words or actions.
I can be a workaholic
- sometimes nothing can prevent me from working, if I start doing
something I do not stop until everything is finished, even if it is
harmful or not profitable at all. I prefer listening to speaking and
I wish the conversation will never stop.
I enjoy loving
a man. I like seeing that he is glad of my successes, that he enjoys
meeting me and that he flies somewhere far away at intimate moments.
I live only with
feelings and intuition. Sometimes it seems to me that my body is made
only of feelings, I can laugh a lot and in a moment I can burst crying.
I must be a crybaby.
Then I would like
my partner not only to enjoy sex with me, but also to like making
me enjoy it. And harmony will be even better.
I think I should
stop writing, partly because words can not express everything and
partly because it is not so easy to invent how to say it. I live with
my feelings and I can be easily offended, but I forget offense rather
quickly. I think that is all. I hope I was sincere and if I did anything
wrong, that is because my being inexperienced and openhearted.
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