What
Women Want
Copyright
(C) 2006 Elena Solomon, author of 12
Simple Rules A
while ago, a guy wrote to me saying that if he knew what women wanted, he would
write a book and retire rich. What
women want was a secret to a man for a long, LONG time. Mel
Gibson and his famous movie “What Women Want” haven’t quite answered this question.
In fact, this is exactly the answer to the question in his own words: “After
about 20 years of marriage, I'm finally starting to scratch the surface of what
women want. And I think the answer lies somewhere between conversation and chocolate.”
I don’t know
about you but this answer doesn’t quite cut it for me. If I were a guy, I would
need something more specific to succeed with women! Fortunately
for you, after reading this article, it will no longer be a mystery. Because I
am going to tell you EXACTLY what women want. (I
was thinking about writing a book and retiring rich… but decided to give this
secret away for free for the good of the humanity.) OK,
let’s get to our nitty-gritty, shall we? Generally,
women want many things, including hot gossip and Italian shoes, but as far as
men-women relationships are concerned, this is the one and the only women’s request:
They want strong,
powerful, overwhelming EMOTIONS. They
want to be swept off their feet. If
you manage to deliver THAT, all other women’s desires and requirements become
irrelevant: money, looks, height, education, status, or anything else men habitually
put on the list of desired attributes - NONE of this really matters. YES!
A woman can fall hopelessly in love with a man who isn’t good looking, doesn’t
have money, doesn’t have education, who is short, bald and old, as long as he
manages to deliver these powerful EMOTIONS that women are craving. Why? Because
her requirements for money and status come from intellectual, or CONSCIOUS part
of the brain - and the emotion of love, or attraction, comes from emotional, or
SUBCONSCIOUS part of the brain. In
other words, she cannot help it.
She cannot decide NOT to be in love.
(Have
you ever tried it yourself, to stop loving the person who you know isn’t good
for you and who only brings you suffering and problems? How successful were these
attempts?) She
doesn’t ‘step into’ love - she ‘falls into’ it. It
is absolutely imperative for you as a man to evoke strong emotions in a woman
in order for her to fall in love with you. And
they don’t have to be positive emotions only - vice versa, an emotional roller
coaster works the best. In other words, hate is NOT the opposite of love - it’s
its associate and partner. Indifference is the opposite of love. It is easier
for you to make a woman that hates you, to fall in love with you, than a woman
who has no feelings whatsoever towards you. What
most men do not realize is that a woman does not have to LIKE you, in order to
fall in LOVE with you. Yes, you’ve read it right: she may NOT like you but still
fall in love with you. Quite often, the reason why she doesn’t like you is the
very reason why she falls in love with you. Confused? You
should be. What
I realized is that although we LIKE people that are ‘like us’, we LOVE people
that have something that we DON’T HAVE. We are powerfully attracted to people
that are DISTINCTIVELY DIFFERENT from us. The MORE different they are, the STRONGER
is our attraction to them. Since
they are different from us, which means they aren’t ‘like us’, chances are this
difference is something that we don’t actually like. The
powerful emotion of attraction that overrides all women’s requirements to a potential
partner and makes her do the things she would not tell her mother about, is only
evoked in a female by a DOMINANT MALE. In other words, the male she cannot control.
Women have in-built
mechanism that reacts on the dominant male by making them weak at their knees
and feeling swept off their feet - experiencing these all-powerful EMOTIONS they
are after. They
respond to a predetermined pattern of behavior by falling in love with the person
who exhibits this behavior. And this pattern can be learned - this is what is
commonly known as ‘dating skills’. Do
you want to drive women crazy about you - to the extent they disregard your looks,
finances and social status? It
is possible and attainable.
And the best thing, you CAN do it. ABOUT
THE AUTHOR: 
Elena Solomon is a dating coach.
Her
latest book "12
Simple Rules" became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading
ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after the release. It shows you EXACTLY
how you can utilize the natural laws of attraction and our in-built sexual strategies
to win in the game of love. Get
the UNFAIR ADVANTAGE in the battle of sexes! Go
here: http://www.12SimpleRules.com/
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